I was just listening to a podcast yesterday while I ran called The Art of Charm. It was
a conversation with author Olivia Fox Cabane on The Science of Creativity and
Genius. She says that each of us have a threshold for uncertainty.
That once we have reached that threshold, we go to fight, flight or
freeze.
Check
out the podcast. https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/art-charm-confidence-relationship/id212382281?mt=2&i=340354310
The podcast I
ran with this morning again addressed uncertainty from a different angle. Civility and Doubt. Often in a discussion when two people hold
opposing views, one or both will become uncivil and aggressive. I considered what I learned yesterday about
uncertainty and how the brain responds – that the brain reacts to uncertainty
in the same way that it reacts to pain; with an urgent directive to resolve it,
creating a tension that won’t go away without resolution. We want to be certain – confident. And this works against us when we are certain
or confident about things that aren’t certain.
When doubt is introduced, tension is created so that we want to defend
what we hold as certain – even to the point of uncivil aggression. This is why it is so hard to be open minded
about those thoughts, ideas, values and principles that I hold dear. It reminds me of the quote from the back of
the Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous,
“There is a
principle which is a bar against all information, which is proof against all
arguments and which cannot fail to keep man in everlasting ignorance. That principle is contempt prior to
investigation.”
Yet, when I
become open minded, willing to consider the possibility that I have placed my
confidence in a position that may not be accurate, the tension of uncertainty
(aka curiosity) will serve me by inspiring investigation and inquiry until the
uncertainty is replaced by insight and clarity.
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